Recommended Sources to Read and Observe for Personal Growth, Emotional Awareness and Social Intelligence

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The following lists are sources I’ve read or observed and are in standard high value to improve one’s Skills, Perspectives, and Long-term Experiences in Personal Growth, Emotional Awareness (Facial Expressions- Micro, Macro, Mask, False), Social and Communication Skills, and have a continuously evolved understanding of what makes us, humans, us, why and how so. More importantly, to lead and succeed in diverse areas of life and relationships, one must have a confident, firm, authentic belief system and apply the knowledge and wisdom that’s provided by professionals through their services.

The List of Recommended Sources:

Law of Attraction: The Science of Attracting More of What You Want and Less of What You Don’t by Michael J. Losier (Author of Law of Connection)

Outliers: The Story of Success by Malcolm Gladwell (his other books such as The Tipping Point and Blink are great reads well)

The Definitive Book of Body Language by Allan and Barbara Pease

The Alabaster Girl by Zan Perrion (Ars Amorata- The Art of Love)

The Game: Penetrating the Secret Society of Pick Up Artists by Neil Strauss which is a memoir (Check out Rules of The Game as it’s a practical exercise manual too)

The Art of War by Sun Tzu

Leadership: Theory, Application, & Skill Development by Robert N. Lussier and Christopher F. Achua

Persuasion: Social Influence and Compliance Gaining by Robert H. Gass and John S. Seiter

Focus: The Hidden Driver of Excellence by Daniel Goleman

Models: Attract Women through Honesty- Mark Manson

All of Dr. Paul Ekman’s Books and Recommendations He’s the leading and most creditable psychologist on deception, emotions, nonverbal communication and more.

The Alchemist by Paulo Coelho

Liespotting by Pamela Meyer

The Compass of Zen by Zen Master, Seung Sahn and Foreword by Stephen Mitchell

Split-Second Persuasion by Keven Dutton

Webs of Influence: The Psychology of Online Persuasion by Nathalie Nahai, The Web Psychologist

Hot Sex Tips, Tricks, and Licks by Dr. Jess O’Reilly, Speaker, Author, TV Personality and Sexologist

First Date Formula by Ben J and JT Tran, I Did It My Way by Jt Tran, Online Dating for Asian Men by JT Tran and Alice Zindagi http://www, and (Applicable to all races and cultures)

50 Powerful Date Ideas by Jordan Gray (Author of 7 Relationship Mistakes)

Social Man Project by Myke Macapinlac

Online Magazine of Good Men Project by Every Day People and Professionals, Writers and Editors

Men’s Health Magazine

Ask Men

Style Life by Neil Strauss (Style)

Venusian Arts by Erik James Horvat-Markovic (Erik von Markovic or Mystery) Watch his show, VH1 The Pick Up Artist Season 1 and 2. Get Hola Unblocker App. (internet use outside country of origin) if required.

Ethical Pickup by Crew Spence

Doctor Nerd Love

Attraction Explained by Adam Lyons

Double Your Dating by David DeAngelo

Anthony Robbins

Art of Manliness

The Art of Charm by Jordan Harbinger and AJ Harbinger

Social Engineering by Chris Hadnagy and Check out books: Social Engineering: The Art of Human Hacking and Unmasking the Social Engineer: The Human Element of Security

Seduction Sirens by Arden Leigh

Dating Advice (Seek Advice, Not an online dating service)

Dating Skills Review: Men’s Source for Dating, Sex, and Relationship Advice

Science of Relationships

Kissing Outside The Lines by Diane Farr

Female Dating Expert for Men, Kezia Noble

Wing Girl Method by Marni Kinrys

Ted Talks

Authentic Man Program

Charismatic Arts

Comments of Neil Strauss Interview

Interview with Neil Strauss, Journalist and PUA

Pickup Advice for Shy Guys

Ethical Pickup

Swoon: Great Seducers and Why Women Love Them by Betsy Prioleau [or Elizabeth Stevens Prioleau]

Sexual Intelligence: What We Really Want from Sex and How to Get It by Marty Klein

Deeper Dating: How to Drop the Games of Seduction and Discover The Power of Intimacy by Ken Page

If you have any other suggestions to add, leave a message underneath this post in the comments below and I’ll check them out.

Society focuses too much on the differences of men and women aka the battle between the sexes. As an individual whose done more than a fair amount of research into attraction, seduction, relationships, dating, courtship, pick up, emotional awareness, social engineering, psychology, social dynamics, social justice and social intelligence, I can tell you with absolute assurance that men and women are more alike even when we don’t realize it. Yes, sure, genders are different physically and the way they perceive things and so forth. However, what we fundamentally need and desire are the same underneath all the surfaces and verbal communication. Universally, people of high value and quality, desire deeper connections, personality, energy, character, similarities, differences, cultural diversity, acceptance, love, passion, morals/ethics, principles, determination, experiences, challenges, leading lifestyles, mental/emotional/sexual/spiritual/religious/social compatibilities. Not all of them may apply. Case by case may be different although all those are the foundations to human connections and intimacy.

Treat Others the way you treat yourself, families, relatives, friends, co-workers, colleagues, associates, and so forth. We’re all human that want to connect deeply.


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